THE ASSIGNMENT

This is for somebody, who might be going through the troubled waters of life, and you are tempted to add more pressure to their pain by going through the lonesome cycle of your past to console yourself. Be it your glorious works and awards! Now you need help with relevance. When you can eat a healthy three-square meal! Now is brunch only (0 -1 - 0) You pay your children's school fees in advance! Now you are at the mercy of the proprietor. Take your partner on a love treat! Now you are on the brink of a divorce. Had figure 8 💃 body, and now struggling with an obese body🤦‍♀ When you can walk into any atm and swipe! Now you wait for church welfare. Your monthly business turnover was in 7- figures; now you are at the mercy of bank loans. You could give out freely, even before you are asked! Now you hide your face. Good times you had with your ex-partner! Now you are emotionally broken. Afford the car of your choice; now you enter standing! Or trek! Pay your rent in advance! But now y...

The temptation to not share my authentic self slides through sometimes as some audience think it's too much to be, but again I remind myself that my life is a tool for elevating people's well-being. The experiences, revelations, and knowledge I gain daily aren't meant to be kept in my mind alone; I am to share with you! and the world for "we are made in part to impart into one other." Here are tips to help you do and be impactful : 1. Understand yourself, or you need to catch up on your life purpose! 2. You don't have to be perfect to impact another positively; we are all clay pots in a furnace. 3. Discover the set of people your life walk can illuminate their path and be a light. 4. Criticism will come, but be sure of whom, what, and why you are doing this; you can't be understood or loved by all. 5. Know when to Selfeed and feed others; the great book says to love your neighbor as yourself. 6. Plug into a support system and never stop ...

Months ago, I bore on to be trained by a successful senior colleague. As an oldie, I sometimes am tempted to skip training by telling myself that I know and have done these things before. After a month, I realized newbies were delivering results I had yet to have. I mustered courage and went to meet my trainer! to access me. IToas confident he would give me the needed spanking and motivational alignment, but lo😭, he said_ hosanna be more disciplined. It took me weeks to readjust, humble myself, and start doing what was needed to cause a shift in my mental attitude; the results I got were changing for the better. I am excited to share these transformational life cues with you today : 1. Be OPEN! Be CURIOUS:  You have to become like a child in any learning sphere. Learn to watch, talk less & do more than average. 2. HUMILITY: This will take you to places and help you learn from nobody and everybody to be Somebody. 3. DISCIPLINE: without this, no man can be trul...

Over last weekend, while uploading contents to my social media handles, a valuable lesson was gained from trying to upload to my blog. I had successfully published the post and shared the link to my social media handles when I realized the image quality was poor. I was disturbed and went back to re-upload the images. For over an hour and a half, the same quality of images was given even after refreshing the web page repeatedly, switching networks, and sitting positions. I finally succumbed to the thought of leaving the image like that, I had logged out of blogger and as I stood up to go about other activities I felt disappointed with myself. The inner me said why would you settle for that, will you or your audience enjoy content with such image quality? I sat back and decided to log in again and delete and upload the images again! And boom, I had my eureka moment; image resolution was perfectly loaded. I sighed in joy and in retrospective, I understood that t...

Two days ago, I went to get a bag of satchet water and as I sat down waiting for my change and water from the seller, I observed he was agitated. Upon collecting both items, I throw in a big smile and asked Oga Viko, as we call him, why you dey vex na? He answered saying, 'na one of my friend dey vex me jor! wetin dey pain me say I go still forgive her', by this, he meant that he is pissed with her but just have to bring himself to forgive her. I asked him, what her offense was? He replied I have known imabong for over 18years, and the only time she calls me is when she needs a favor, and I will agree to help most times because I know if I don't help her, God will surely raise another person to meet the need; so why not do it. I sighed and walked back to my abode while digesting how my day panned out, these insights were opened to me and I thought to share with you: 1. Yes, we are to Treasure people no matter how close or far in strengths they are to you. 2.  Why?...

When you are a good person, you don't lose people. They lose you. - Oleg Vishnelposky. When I saw this post on my LinkedIn, I quickly liked, saved it, and later posted it on my WhatsApp status days later. Upon posting it, I started having misconstrued thoughts, like "what will people think is happening to me, did she lose someone, what is she feeling like, trying to console herself" and this almost made me take down the post. Then again I had a thought redirection, I remember King David, who his wife Micah left because he was playing before God via dancing. Micah thought it was stupid for someone of that regard to dance in public to the extent that he was naked; this made her rebuke and left him because he stood his ground for something of a virtue. You know good people are what the Bible says in Matthew 5: 14-16 ~ Light to the world. You will attract many, but be warned many will walk away from you after trying to rebuke you for they cannot stand the intensity ...

Every great leaders goes through tough seasons, where they encounter huge losses personally, physically and mental defeat. I personally has being in this phase of late, sometimes I want to beat myself and cry the hell out of my eyes for not seeing the pointers earlier and to  taking corrective steps. I may still be in the season of my storms but its no excuse not to succeed; am not planning to give up! as I am being powered daily by my God Given Vision, Hero's who have gone ahead of me & You all Impacting into Humanity daily. I am also using this to encourage others out there that are about quitting on their dreams, its too Late! Don't give in! Let's win this war together ...BECOMING YOU! YES YOU... Yours in Progress, Hosanna Oyibo

LIFE Mission: Find a Balance  In social sciences, we were made to understand that man's needs are insatiable. True as it may be, it doesn't stop us from utilizing the gift of life and our daily going forth in search of ways to fill these needs! Year 2018 has started in its majestic regalia, you might have taken time out to write out your yearly goals & dreams, taking action steps towards them every day and prioritizing your immediate wants & needs........good! good! good. I have learned that: Man's life is based on Beliefs upon which he builds his faith; our Needs lay the bedrock on which our Beliefs are built. Despite being aware of the truth that all men will someday pass on to the great beyond and be free of this cycle, many still live a carefree life in the present! with a vain sense of relief and reassurance that the pleasures of now and tempting joys from the imagination of the future will bring them to satisfy all their desires and need...